An open letter to the boys who are crushing on me:
Posted by Gypsy on Jul 25, 2006
Dear boys who are crushing on me,
I’m flattered, really I am. I’m lucky enough that most of you are people I consider good friends. And since I like you enough to want to be friends with you, I’m extra flattered that you are interested in me in a more than friends way.
Now, I realize some of you are just trying to get in my panties. And while many girls would consider that very flattering, I’ve learned that most men will fuck anything, so some of that magic has been lost.
For those of you wanting something more than friendship, that I definitely find flattering. Especially from the ones who know some of my more extreme faults (of which there are many). But the reality is that I’ve just come out of a three year commitment and am just not ready for another one. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about hanging out and having fun, but at this point in my life I don’t want a boyfriend. I can’t be tied down when I’ve just started to taste the joys of freedom.
So, boys who are crushing on me, be patient but don’t wait for me. I don’t know when I’ll be ready for another relationship, but I’m not right now. And while you may not think so, I know I’m probably not worth waiting for.
Love,
Me
Boooooo!!
You are SO worth waiting for! You are a modest lady!
LONG LIVE PLATNIUM!!!!!
LOL :D
Love you,
Mandy.
oxoxo
ps.
I kept going to myspace to see the frickin’ blogs…I forgot about your website! oops :)
M.
I love ya hun. Not only do I think any guy who would not want to wait for you is an idiot, I think you are fooling yourself if you think you are not worth waiting for.
I am glad to see you are taking your time. Time to reflect upon yourself is a real necessity right now.
I am so proud of all the progress you are making. I mean, you have set out to make things about you better..the things you felt needed changing.
I love you babe.
“Dear boys who are crushing on me,”- you
Are there no girls crushing on you?
Not that I know of, but if there are I do hope they tell me about it. ;)
Please… we won’t even go there with the whole girl thing because you know I’ve been crushing on you since the moment I met you. Aside from that, you have to stop thinking about boys and start thinking about men. There is a difference and when you find the right man you will know it and all the waiting will have been worth it.
Very honest and witty Miss Gypsy:) Love to read your blog.
Btw, live your life and let it flow, because in my country we say: What is yours shall come to you one way or another…
With respect,
Kokomal
Are you silly? Not worth it? You take another look at yourself!
Dammit, I was so not crushing on you before, but this might push me over the edge. Damn my appreciation of honesty
Don’t make me quote Liv Tyler
yeah. the line that struck me funny was ‘most guys will fuck anything.’
it really is true. most guys are embarassingly indiscriminate as to whom they choose to poke with their poking parts. we’re not picky, and when we’re drunk then all bets are off.
men suck.
Come on, you should always be ready to meet Mr. Right. I agree with the post above that states you take your time and really figure out who you are and what you need and want.
I’m doing this too before I go seeking it again. Maybe I won’t make the same mistake again.