I’m so gonna piss someone off, but this is fucking funny…
Posted by Gypsy on Aug 17, 2006
A friend alerted me to the “about me” section on the myspace page of someone we know. We’ll call this myspacer Jane. Her “about me” section says, and I quote:
“I hate people who cheat on their man or women and get all jealous when the other person moved on and out of their no good ….none existences of a life. Get over your selves bitches….WHY should the other person be worried about your feelings, when you were the one that fucked up!!!! You weren’t worry about your partner’s feelings when you were doing that shit. You people deserve everything you get….and more you shouldn’t get any mercy…SO SHUT THE FUCK UP AND FUCK OFF ”
While Jane may say “man or woman,” she is specifically talking about her boyfriend, John’s, ex, who did cheat on him. Not to defend John’s ex, but he cheated on her as well. These two had some trust issues and the end of their relationship was predicted by everyone who knew them.
But here is the punchline, the reason why I’ve been laughing over this all fucking week. What Jane doesn’t realize, but I have on good authority from one of John’s best friends, is that when John went home to visit his family awhile back, he cheated on her. And is no doubt doing it now that he’s visiting them again.
Now, I don’t agree with the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater.” I think people can change. But considering John was still fucking his ex when he started dating Jane, which Jane says he denied; that he was with his ex most of his adult life and that he has no intention of staying with Jane after he moves in the fall, it’s pretty dumb of Jane to think he’s going to be faithful. WAKE UP, WOMAN!!! HE DOESN’T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU!
Why won’t some women get their head out of their asses?
I wasn’t drinking THAT much. I meant every bit of my encouragement for you to talk about this subject!
Yeah, I don’t even think we were tipsy at that point. :)
I don’t understand why Jane continues to be such a source of interest to everyone (especially let’s say Charlene). Also, allow me to say John and Jane are not in a commited, but OPEN relationship, allowing John OR Jane to have more than one partner. Charlene has so much to offer, and so much to look forward to. Why would she focus on on John, or moreover someone John isn’t committed to in the first place? I wish Charlene would stop worrying so much about Jane or John and enjoy life as Charlene.
I love you.
Char doesn’t care about John. This post wasn’t really about him. In fact, Char is with someone who treats her about a million times better than he did even in their better days. But she doesn’t appreciate getting attacked by someone who doesn’t know the full story. The fact is no one but Char and John know the whole story and therefore no one else has a right to comment on it, especially some chick who’s only known either of them a couple months.
Besides, Jane does call John her boyfriend. To me, if I call someone my boyfriend, that means there is some level of commitment that doesn’t involve fucking other people.
All I am saying is why would Char let Jane’s bullshit rent space in her head? It’s just fuckin myspace. Life is too short and too precious to worry about crap like that. Highschool drama rears it’s ugly head. Secondly, levels of commiment vary in each relationship. I have friends who have open marriages. Boyfriend, Girlfriend? Mere words. It is not for us to say what should or should not include outside fucking. That is up to only the people within the given relationship.